This is for you
07 May 2025
BUSA JEREMIAH WENOGO
Commemorating my attainment of a Master of Economics & Public Policy degree
on 30 April 2025 at the University of PNG’s 70th Graduation Ceremony
This is for you Papa,
For being rejected in school because of no school fees many seasons ago.
For leaving behind all that you know to come to a strange and foreign land.
For braving the harsh working environment at the risk of your own life to pay for my school fees.
For waking up very early every morning to provide me breakfast
For going to the store after a very long and tiring day every day to provide me dinner
For working overtime and foregoing your weekends to make sure I don’t miss a day at school.
For being my mentor and strength despite your limited education.
For the pride you had in me despite the fact that my future was unknown.
For believing in me that I will be the man that you dreamt of all those years ago.
For making me into becoming the person that you could not be.
For being my shepherd leading me to greener pasture.
I only wish you could be here on this joyous occasion when your dream becomes a reality
I wish I could hug you and say we did it.
This is for you Mama,
For your obedience in heeding God’s call to be with papa.
For the labour pain and discomfort I gave you coming into this world.
For braving sickness and pains in your body to keep my uniforms clean and dry
For looking out for me like a hen watching over her chick although you were struggling with your health.
For your dedication, loyalty and perseverance despite no formal education.
For deciding to become a table mama because my education is too important to just give up
For standing beside papa to ensure I have all I need to be successful in school.
On this momentous day, I wish I could look into those loving eyes and say thank you.
I wish I could repay you for all that you have done in my life.
On this day I miss you so much, Mama.
This is for you my wife;
For being my one true companion and the pillar that keeps me upright
For being my wise counsellor and voice of reason.
For being with me on this journey through ups and downs.
For being the reason for my success.
For ensuring that I make my parents proud.
For being selfless and understanding even when you are unwell.
For filling up my void during this lonely trial with love and tenderness.
This achievement is your achievement, this victory is your victory.
Without you I doubt if I would arrive at this destination.
Without you this would only be just a dream.
On this day you deserve as much praise and admiration as me.
This is for you my children;
For being the reason why I persevered to complete this journey
For reminding me every time I feel weary that I have to keep going for your sake
So that you can reach the stars one day;
So that you can carry yourself in life with your heads held high;
So that you can be inspired to achieve all that you aim to achieve.
The journey is not yet over, I am only taking you to the furthest I can go.
Hold this achievement in your hand and run your own race.
Run and run until you reach your purpose and destiny.
Make me, your mother, your ancestors, your nation and your God proud.
This day should herald the start of that pursuit.
One day just like me, I wish to see you achieve this feat.
This is for you my siblings, tribe and community;
I graduate now with this award as the first but not the last
I graduate as the first of many to come
I graduate as your elder brother and pride.
I graduate leaving footprints on the sand.
I graduate with a torch illuminating the darkness that is before us.
I graduate leaving behind a fire burning.
I graduate creating a story to inspire you and generations to come.
To God and Country this is for you;
Thank you for giving me a life, home and an identity.
Thank you for this breathe of life that has brought me this far.
Thank you for taking me to the top of another mountain in my life and showing me how far I have come and the journey that awaits me.
I came, I saw and now I have conquered one more mountain.
Today I graduate while knowing I am a son of God, my parents and Papua New Guinea.
Today I graduate as a brother, a husband, a father, a relative, a role model, a citizen and a patriot
Tomorrow, I will go out as a kingdom and nation builder chosen out of the many that were called.
To make a future that is better than what I inherited from my parents and forerunners.
Very sorry bro, such a sad story but eventually I see that you have done your best to honour your parents sacrifice which is very important and comforting.
Likewise I had use all the financial resources that I had to take my late parents bodies home to be buried in 2021 and 2022 respectively.
It was such a draining but rewarding exercise as I felt that I was honouring their sacrifice by putting them to rest where they were born.
I knew that they will not be around to benefit from what they have invested their whole life for.
Completing my Masters was also part of me paying respective and honouring them as I stated earlier. But I have to say my wife and God played a very significant role in that my wife was very understanding and supportive.
Relying on God was key to taking us out from a very dark part of our life to where we are.
In between my children kept me focused on the future. I owe my wife, children and God a great deal for getting me this far.
Posted by: Busa Jeremiah Wenogo | 09 May 2025 at 10:49 AM
Sorry bro for the loss of your parents, one after the other. Like you, I lost my father first. Then my mum.
My regret has been that I never made them happy. I started my family soon after working here in Wabag.
They had struggled but I had never rewarded them enough.
I have seen the world a bit after travelling on that dust track to school in 1964. The furthest my dad came was to Mt Hagen when I started work with the NBC.
Both he and my mum came to Wabag only three times. One of those times was to dress my third born brother during a cultural show at Sir Tei Abal Secondary School.
After that, they never came. They somehow understood that everything costs money in town. They had enough sweet potatoes and fresh water at home.
When I heard that my father was sick, I bought some food and took it home. When I was nearing my village, people told me he had just died.
I went to touch his body, cried as much as I could, then buried him, the next day.
I fulfilled his request to give the traditional compensation to the 'mama lain' to his cousin Yaok's sons from Lungutenges village.
After that, I paid the same compensation to my mother's maternal cousin when mum was still alive. She died a happy woman.
Posted by: Daniel Kumbon | 08 May 2025 at 04:51 PM
Thank you Daniel for your congratulatory and kind comment.
I enrolled in 2021 for the Masters Program and lost my father along the way. I had to skip classes to take him to the village to have him buried there.
In the end I had to sit for exams while the rest of the students were on holidays.
In 2022, I planned to complete my studies but then I suddenly lost my mother during the first semester of that year. This time I withdrew from study without knowing exactly when I would come back to complete it.
It was my wife who strongly urged me to complete my studies as a way to honour my parents legacies and realise their dreams. I did that last year and graduated this year.
This poem captures all the emotions that went through me during the graduation.
Posted by: Busa Jeremiah Wenogo | 08 May 2025 at 09:39 AM
Your words touch me my bro...the words about your father and mother. They bring tears to my eyes.
I think of my mum and dad often too. How my father led me along bush tracks to go to school at the Kandep Primary T School in 1964. How my mum had fought dad when he tried to use a pig in a compensation payout. She had hidden it for my school fees. I have written about it elsewhere.
I have just written something about my dad taking me to school which I will post shortly.
Congratulations on your achievement. I wish you and your family the best.
Posted by: Daniel Kumbon | 07 May 2025 at 09:15 PM